Pregnancy, Birth & Infant Care
Most births are normal and need patience, not intervention β but recognising the few that go wrong, early, saves two lives. This is a field overview. The bundled A Book for Midwives (Hesperian) in the library is the deep reference β read it before you need it.
If a midwife, nurse, or doctor is reachable, that is always the right choice. This guide is for when none is β and even then, a calm, clean, attentive birth attendant matters more than any equipment. Plan transport and a backup attendant well before the due date.
1. Prenatal Care
Good outcomes start months before birth. The aims: a well-nourished mother, early detection of problems, and a clean plan for the day.
- Nutrition: extra calories, protein, iron (dark leafy greens, beans, organ meat), and iodine. Anaemia (pale eyelids/gums, exhaustion) is common and dangerous at birth β prioritise iron-rich food.
- Track the pregnancy: note the date of the last period to estimate the due date (~40 weeks / ~9 months from it). Feel for the baby's growth and movement (regular movement from ~mid-pregnancy is reassuring).
- Watch for warning signs that need urgent help if possible: severe swelling of face/hands, bad headaches with blurred vision (signs of pre-eclampsia β can lead to fatal seizures), any bleeding, severe vomiting, fever, or the baby stopping movement.
- Rest and water in late pregnancy; avoid heavy toxic work, alcohol, and tobacco.
- Plan the birth: a clean, warm, private space; a trained-as-possible attendant; the birth kit ready; and a transport plan if things go wrong.
2. Labour & Normal Birth
Labour has three stages. Most of it is waiting and supporting β let the mother move, drink, and find her own positions.
Stage 1 β Opening (longest)
Contractions start mild and far apart, then grow stronger, longer, and closer. The cervix gradually opens. This can take many hours, especially for a first baby. Keep the mother hydrated, calm, upright and moving; time contractions. The waters may break (clear fluid is normal).
Stage 2 β Pushing & birth
- When the mother feels a strong urge to push and the cervix is fully open, she pushes with contractions. Support her in whatever position works (upright, hands-and-knees, and side-lying all work).
- Wash your hands and use clean (ideally sterile) gloves. Keep everything around the birth clean.
- As the head crowns, support the perineum and let the head deliver slowly between contractions to reduce tearing β do not pull.
- Feel whether the cord is around the neck; if so, gently slip it over the head or loosen it.
- The body follows with the next push. Support the baby β they are slippery. Note the time of birth.
Stage 3 β The placenta
The placenta usually delivers within 5β30 minutes. Do not pull on the cord. Let it come with a gentle contraction and the mother's push. Check the placenta looks complete β retained pieces cause dangerous bleeding. Tie/clamp the cord in two places once it stops pulsing and cut between the ties with a clean blade; dip the baby's cord stump in antiseptic.
3. Birth Danger Signs
A steady flow that soaks cloths, or a sudden gush, with a soft "boggy" womb. Act immediately: (1) firmly massage/rub the top of the womb through the belly until it hardens to a grapefruit-sized ball; (2) put the baby to the breast β suckling releases hormones that clamp the womb; (3) empty the bladder; (4) ensure the placenta is complete. If trained and supplied, misoprostol or oxytocin is the drug treatment. Keep her flat and warm and get help.
- Prolonged obstructed labour β strong contractions for hours with no progress, or the baby's hand/cord/buttocks presenting first (not head). This may need skilled help or surgery; start arranging transport early.
- Cord prolapse β the cord appears before the baby and gets compressed. Position the mother knees-to-chest (bottom up), keep the cord warm and moist, do not push it back, and get emergency help β the baby's oxygen is at risk.
- Seizures / pre-eclampsia β convulsions in late pregnancy or labour are life-threatening; protect from injury, lay on her side, and get help; magnesium sulphate is the treatment where available.
- Baby not breathing at birth β see Newborn, below: dry, warm, stimulate, and give rescue breaths.
- Green/brown waters, foul smell, or fever β signs of distress or infection.
4. Postpartum Care (Mother)
- Watch bleeding for the first hours and days; some bleeding (lochia) is normal and tapers over weeks, but soaking a pad an hour, large clots, or a return of heavy bleeding is an emergency (see above).
- Infection watch: fever, foul-smelling discharge, or a tender belly in the days after birth signals a womb infection β needs antibiotics and care.
- Rest, fluids, iron-rich food, and help with chores. Keep the perineum clean; warm water eases healing of tears.
- Mental health: brief "baby blues" are common; persistent despair, inability to care for the baby, or thoughts of harm need real support (see Psychology & Morale).
- Encourage the mother to pass urine and to move gently to reduce clot risk.
5. Newborn β The First Hours & Days
At birth
- Dry the baby vigorously with a clean cloth and keep it warm β newborns lose heat fast. Skin-to-skin on the mother's chest, covered, is the best warmer.
- Most babies cry and breathe at once. If not breathing: keep warm, rub the back/feet to stimulate, clear the mouth then nose. If still not breathing after ~30β60 seconds, give gentle rescue breaths β small puffs (just a cheekful of air) over the nose and mouth, about 40 per minute, watching the chest rise.
- Let the cord stop pulsing before cutting; keep the stump clean and dry.
- Put the baby to the breast within the first hour β the first milk (colostrum) is rich in immunity.
First days
- Keep warm and fed β feed on demand, day and night, ~8β12+ times in 24 h.
- Cord care: keep clean and dry; redness/swelling/pus/smell around the navel is a serious infection.
- Output tells you intake is enough: wet nappies increasing over the first week and regular stools.
- Jaundice (yellow skin/eyes) is common around days 2β4; mild fades, but deep yellowing in the first 24 h, or a lethargic baby who won't feed, is dangerous.
6. Breastfeeding & Infant Feeding
Breast milk is the safest, most complete infant food β and in a grid-down world, the only reliably clean and free one. Protect breastfeeding above almost anything.
- Latch: baby's mouth wide, taking a large mouthful of areola (not just the nipple), chin to breast. A good latch doesn't pinch and you hear swallowing.
- Supply follows demand: frequent feeding makes more milk. A well-fed, hydrated, rested mother makes plenty; stress and dehydration reduce it.
- Sore/cracked nipples usually mean a shallow latch β fix the latch; air-dry; a little breast milk on the nipple heals it. Hot, red, painful breast with fever is mastitis β keep feeding/draining that side, rest, warmth; may need antibiotics.
- If the mother can't feed: another lactating woman (wet-nursing) is the safest alternative. Animal milk must be diluted and is a poor, risky substitute for young infants; formula needs clean water and is unsustainable. Prioritise any human milk.
- Around 6 months, begin soft solid foods alongside continued breastfeeding.
7. Infant Illness β Danger Signs
Babies get sick fast. Any of these means act now β warmth, fluids/feeding, and skilled help if reachable:
β’ Won't feed or can't stay awake to feed β’ Breathes very fast, grunts, or the chest sucks in between the ribs β’ Is floppy, unresponsive, or has a weak/high-pitched cry β’ Has a fever, or feels cold and won't warm up β’ Has sunken eyes/fontanelle, no wet nappies, no tears (dehydration) β’ Has convulsions β’ Has a bulging soft spot or stiff neck β’ Turns blue, or is deeply yellow (jaundice).
Dehydration from diarrhoea/vomiting is a leading killer β give frequent breast milk and oral rehydration solution (see Medicine Making β ORS). Pneumonia (fast/laboured breathing) and newborn sepsis (a baby that is "just not right," off feed, too hot or too cold in the first weeks) need antibiotics urgently β these are not "wait and see" situations.
8. Birth Kit
Assemble and keep clean, sealed, and ready well before the due date:
- Clean cloths/towels (drying and warming), clean plastic sheet
- Soap, clean water, antiseptic (iodine/chlorhexidine), sterile gloves
- Two cord ties (clean tape/string) and a clean/boiled blade or scissors for the cord
- Bulb syringe (clearing the airway), a warm hat for the baby
- Sanitary cloths/pads for the mother, container for the placenta to inspect
- Where available and someone is trained: misoprostol (postpartum bleeding), a thermometer, and basic newborn-safe antibiotics
- The bundled A Book for Midwives printed or on the device